it's raining...it's POURING! (UPDATE)

Wow. That's pretty much all that I have to say right now. I know that God is in complete control of our lives. I believe that.
It's just that lately, when it rains... it really pours. I shared with you all last week when our friends lost their baby at twelve weeks.Well, on my way to work this morning...my mom texted me to let me know that a girl that I know (not very well, but I still know her) lost her baby. I'm not sure if it was yesterday, or when... but she was five months pregnant. Her and her husband have to face a little more of what Clif and I had to face almost four months ago. She went into the hospital last night I believe, and is in labour as I type.
Once again, I am devastated for this young couple. Like us, this was their first child. Everything had been going wonderfully... no problems whatsoever. And BAMM. Their baby is gone. Forever. With no warning.
My first instinct is to say that we have some horrible doctors in our area, that they really need to learn how to take care of healthy, pregnant women. But I don't believe that it's their fault...not for a second. Though, it does make one wonder what's going on.
However, I do believe that God is going to use me. And not just me, but Clif too. We have been through something horrible, and great things have come from our pain. I think that He is really going to use us in helping others going through similar and the same situations that we had to face. And still continue to face daily.
This also fuels my fire of fear for future pregnancy. It seems that everyone around me are losing their babies. Since Lilly was born still, two of my friends have had healthy babies. That's it...two. The rest have lost theirs. I want to question God. I want to scream WHY?!? But I don't. I trust Him, with my life, our lives...with everything. I just wish that I understood, but I am certain that I'm not supposed to understand this...at least, not now.
Please be in prayer for this young couple who have lost their child, and must go through labour to be rewarded with nothing, except seeing their little one. And I don't even know how that will go with her being only five months along ????? And also, please continue to pray for the "F" family that lost their baby last week.

**UPDATE** I found out while on my lunch break that as far as we know, she is still in labour. This was her first child, as I said before...and she is 28 years old. Please pray for this couple, and their families as they face this hard time.