tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891444636336029501.post1692221464467147500..comments2023-07-24T11:34:51.560-04:00Comments on ...journey to motherhood: Our Reality.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891444636336029501.post-27948778477139982382010-03-13T18:05:34.512-05:002010-03-13T18:05:34.512-05:00I think it is absolutely beautiful. Perfect for y...I think it is absolutely beautiful. Perfect for your precious Lilly. It is a hard thing, for me, when Cooper's headstone was set, I felt like there was nothing left for me to do for him, but then I realized that each and every time I go there, and take care of it, and make it look amazingly beautiful, I am doing it for him. I am letting everyone know that he is loved. That he is thought of each and every day. And most of all, that he did exsist. <br /><br />I am proud of you for making it throught this difficult step with pure grace. I am sure Lilly is looking down on you and Cliff, and is so proud to have parents like you who love her and miss her with every ounce of your soul. <br /><br />**hugs**<br />SuzieSuziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04553976664879552909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891444636336029501.post-10872093640650303952010-03-12T15:14:01.301-05:002010-03-12T15:14:01.301-05:00I'm so glad it is in. It's a beautiful sto...I'm so glad it is in. It's a beautiful stone. I know I was so happy when Carleigh's was finally in and that it wasn't empty any longer.Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15431384515813384025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891444636336029501.post-38475245208092266362010-03-12T13:05:50.744-05:002010-03-12T13:05:50.744-05:00Thanks ladies, and thanks for not giving me too ha...Thanks ladies, and thanks for not giving me too hard a time about our blond moment. :-)<br />Lori, I don't know about being brave... but I am trying my best. My grandmother gave birth to my uncle who was still born. And all they have is a little number, and that breaks my heart.<br />I wanted the world to know that Lilly was my daughter, so I felt that I HAD to do it for her.<br />I will be praying for you that God may give you the strength to finalize the headstone :-)<br />Much Love to all,<br /> DesireeLilly's Mom (Desiree)https://www.blogger.com/profile/16862366625483089738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891444636336029501.post-78522946899737226482010-03-12T12:32:32.323-05:002010-03-12T12:32:32.323-05:00Bless your heart...we went to the cemetery about a...Bless your heart...we went to the cemetery about a month ago to order the marker and I just have not been able to bring myself to finalize the design. It brings "set in stone" a whole new meaning...I am just having such a hard, hard time. I'm very impressed with your bravery and strength<br />I often get aggravated when people tell me that I am brave because I feel like breathing from one second to the next just has to happen and it's not bravery that makes me do it.<br /><br />But you don't HAVE to do a marker so soon...or ever...and that you are brave enough and strong enough to do it and honor her is just wonderful.<br />Lifting you up!<br />xoxoLorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01828552745708177768noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891444636336029501.post-57112375407230652732010-03-12T12:17:14.925-05:002010-03-12T12:17:14.925-05:00The headstone is lovely. I'm so sorry you'...The headstone is lovely. I'm so sorry you're going through this.Leeceehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02103431303658141969noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891444636336029501.post-75830582567172204822010-03-12T10:44:51.350-05:002010-03-12T10:44:51.350-05:00The headstone is beautiful. I loved your blond mo...The headstone is beautiful. I loved your blond moment! I would have thought the same thing!Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02940842982543866147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891444636336029501.post-50149509546387145512010-03-12T02:26:19.967-05:002010-03-12T02:26:19.967-05:00It is so very beautiful and so sorry you had to do...It is so very beautiful and so sorry you had to do that walk again. I miscarried both times and sometimes I wish I had a marker to see. So many people act as if it wasn't real but I'm like you it shows that person meant something and was real. I remember the day we got my Dad's I felt like Wow that's really my Dad and I want everyone to know. It is heartbreaking but beautiful at the same time.<br />I bet I would have made the same mistake about the vase too. I never would have thought.<br />CarolineCarolinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14698815527301107339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-891444636336029501.post-7250987701858349072010-03-11T21:58:37.042-05:002010-03-11T21:58:37.042-05:00I know for me having Emily's headstone put dow...I know for me having Emily's headstone put down was a *HUGE* thing.I remember when the man called us and told us it was there, we went and I felt like everything I could have ever done for her was just that, done.<br />It's nice having it there letting people know who she is, but it's hard I know.<br />Lily's is beautiful! (((HUGS)))trenniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208738689962789823noreply@blogger.com